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keith Member Since: 15 Aug 2012 Location: Edinburgh Posts: 2211 |
Just like to say THANKS for all support and comments from forum members .
There are those who have been through Divorce and your words are encouraging . It's very dark days and I'm devastated and lost right now . There is no 3rd party involved and I take responsibility for my actions and ask no sympathy , 12 yrs lost . I'm ex army and thought I had big balls , seems I don't . Just a fannnee Cheers pals . Keith |
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10th Aug 2014 7:24pm |
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newhue Member Since: 28 Apr 2014 Location: Brisbane Posts: 351 |
Keith, relationships are not easy. We do not formally learn about them at school, rather watch and listen from family to foe, close mate or stranger then add or perhaps subtract the good and bad into out own make up. Let alone work out our own genetic downloads, and our parents behaviours because they did exactly the same.. There is a lot to get in a pile.
Try and keep it calm, try not to put your self down. It takes two to make up a relationship and 50% of the problem, and the good times belongs to the spouse. Not a great deal to be gained by allotting blame, no one has a rule book. As mentioned before don't eject all from your life because the current situation is bad. Nothing gained by chucking away an expansive roof rack, or selling it at fire sales prices. I threw the key to the house on the table, closed the door, and walked away I was so burnt. It took a long time to get back up. I'm much better for it, just was harder than it had to be. Feel free to PM if you like. I have no professional skills in relationships, just my own meandering experience. My new wife was also divorced. But we both agree you can get it very right the second time. My Defender and travels |
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10th Aug 2014 8:30pm |
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johanhunter72 Member Since: 01 Aug 2014 Location: Vriezenveen Posts: 1 |
Keith,
Really sorry to hear about your current situation. We met in france on the campsite, the dutch family with the defender 130 All the best for the future, Johan, |
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16th Aug 2014 1:45pm |
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Anderzander Member Since: 08 Feb 2011 Location: Lancashire Posts: 999 |
It takes by balls to say that. I hope this ending soon transitions into a new beginning for you. |
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17th Aug 2014 7:09pm |
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