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| K9F Member Since: 12 Nov 2009 Location: Bournemouth Posts: 9610   
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Glyn,
Divorce can be a very, very acrimonious and extremely expensive process, believe you me!!! It can also take a heavy toll on your health and state of mind..... It is very easy to 'get hung up' on principle rather than sense and sensibility and the only people to profit are the solicitors...such instances are 'meat and gravy' to them. As harsh as this may sound kidnap is not the answer as this will make you look bad and possibly place you on the wrong side of the law and a bitter dispute (over an animal it's not bl00dy worth it), remain calm, honourable and level-headed. Not sure about your circumstances (children etc.) but I went through a mangle for three years trying to get everything settled! Forget the dog and concentrate on moving on. PM me if I can offer any unbiased advice and I'll furnish you with my number! Good luck and best wishes Mal...  If you go through life with your head in the sand....all people will see is an ar5e!!
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8th Jan 2011 5:39pm |
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| Glynparry25 Member Since: 16 Feb 2009 Location: Miserable Midlands Posts: 3015  
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That is where I wasn't a mug.... wasn't married, just boy friend/ girlfriend. I was thinking more down the line of I have paid for everything with it and cared fr it just as much/ maore than her.... would it be kidnap? Glyn  |
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8th Jan 2011 5:41pm |
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| kingofthesparks Member Since: 06 Jan 2011 Location: Very close to Watford gap services , northants Posts: 987 
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Take him !!! he will be happy with you, if shes on her own now she probably end up with a few cats anyhow
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8th Jan 2011 5:44pm |
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| Glynparry25 Member Since: 16 Feb 2009 Location: Miserable Midlands Posts: 3015
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She already has one cat, lol. I know he will be happier with me. Whenever we are anywhere he always wants to be next to me... at the vets he always cowers to me. That is why I want him.... she is more concerned about his appearance..... wanting him to drink tea so he gets a shiny coat etc.- if dogs were meant to drink tea PG Tips would make a special Dog brand. Maybe just grab him next time I am back in UK, Rabbies jab him and passport...... addios to Germany with me (only down side would be him not being able to travelback to UK for 6 months after for the blood sample to come through  )
Glyn |
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8th Jan 2011 5:50pm |
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| K9F Member Since: 12 Nov 2009 Location: Bournemouth Posts: 9610
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Glyn,
PM sent... If you go through life with your head in the sand....all people will see is an ar5e!!
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8th Jan 2011 5:51pm |
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| BigRuss Member Since: 15 May 2010 Location: Norfolk Posts: 2785 
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Sorry to hear the bad news, but with regards to diabilo I remember the your ex say she bought herself the cat which has made a mess of diabilo's tail and the dog was yours. So why does she now want the dog! Russell
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8th Jan 2011 5:52pm |
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| K9F Member Since: 12 Nov 2009 Location: Bournemouth Posts: 9610
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Spite probably!!! Pets and being in the Service don't mix! I think he should let it go and move on! If you go through life with your head in the sand....all people will see is an ar5e!! Treat every day as if it is your last....one day you will be right!! |
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8th Jan 2011 5:55pm |
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| Glynparry25 Member Since: 16 Feb 2009 Location: Miserable Midlands Posts: 3015
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Because I took the Dyson I bought 2 days ago... whilst I was putting it in the car she locked the door saying I can't get the dog. She is just doing it to 'get one over on me' Glyn |
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8th Jan 2011 5:55pm |
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| T1G UP Member Since: 08 Dec 2009 Location: Bath Posts: 3101  
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swap the dyson for the dog |
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8th Jan 2011 6:49pm |
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| kingofthesparks Member Since: 06 Jan 2011 Location: Very close to Watford gap services , northants Posts: 987
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Just what i was thinking
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8th Jan 2011 6:57pm |
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| Glynparry25 Member Since: 16 Feb 2009 Location: Miserable Midlands Posts: 3015
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I wish it was that easy... would buy here a all singing all dancing hoover if it would mean I get my boy back. She feels she has a right to the dyson, the dog, my laptop.... only thing she didn't want was the Defender....it is like she thinks we were married so what is mine is hers and what is hers is hers. I have read all the legal jargon and it says I should have the dog.... just wondering if anyone has gone down this route and has advice. I just don't want her to have it because she neglects it. Being a Lab, you put him out in the back garden alone and he will just sit at the back door waiting to come in (well he does)..... Whilst I was away he developed a habit of jumping up to people.... within 5 mins of being home I realised it was because people walking past the garden would call him, he jumps up on the fence (3' tall) and then he would get petted (rewarded) but the ex says 'It hasn't got anything to do with it- leave him out there for a few hours, he will exercise himself'. Glyn |
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8th Jan 2011 6:59pm |
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| fekete Member Since: 24 Dec 2008 Location: Here on the other end of the computer Posts: 3626 
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Glyn if it was me and i wanted the dog i'd take the dog simple...you live too far for her to come and get him back
NEVER TAKE LIFE SERIOUSLY. NOBODY GETS OUT ALIVE ANYWAYLast edited by fekete on 9th Jan 2011 8:08pm. Edited 1 time in total |
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8th Jan 2011 7:06pm |
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| Glynparry25 Member Since: 16 Feb 2009 Location: Miserable Midlands Posts: 3015
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Yeah, I do think that but at the same time being in the forces opens you up to a whole new world of pain when you get on the wrong side of the law. Wish I was a private again so they wouldn't be able to bust me!!! Glyn |
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8th Jan 2011 7:11pm |
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| pom Member Since: 01 Jun 2010 Location: Worcester Posts: 1343 |
If it was me I'd simply take the dog, legally its property, and you have proof that you bought it. End off.
The cops will have zero interest in it as it is a civil not criminal matter. You mention 'when it goes to court', as your not married is your ex attempting to make a county court claim against you ? That will cost a shedload of money for her, unless there is a house involved I can't see it paying. So she would have to prove to a Judge that the dog was her property which from what you have said would be impossible. Just take it along with anything else thats yours that you could reasonably demonstrate to the beak if needed. Courts take a very dim view of people playing silly  , I've won a couple of small claims actions over the years and have found Judges on the whole to be reasonable.
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8th Jan 2011 7:11pm |
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